Life Lesson

April 05, 2011

I don't understand it. How can someone disrespect their own mother. Janelle from Teen Mom 2 is probably one of the most disrespectful, "stupid" and unreasonable person I've seen - not met. She has a child, yet she goes out with friends every night, parties with boys, does drugs, never spends time with her child and basically acts like a "teenager" instead of a mother. I've watched some episodes and I've seen her behavior and the irresponsible decision she makes, and I sit here and wonder.. what were you thinking? What makes it even worse is the fact that she tries to defend herself and come up with reasons as to why she did those things and that she is not wrong. Of course I don't know her personally, and it's a tv show but not everything they portray on television is fake. I am so disgusted and appauled with her behavior and attitude and actions. She should know better and realize that having a baby takes responsibily and that extra effort to become a "good" mother. I've seen her yell and argue with her mother and the hurtful and disrespectful things she says to her, but the most surpring thing I've witness is when she hit her mother. I don't know about you, but there is no reason you should ever lay a hand on your parents. My mom has always told me and taught me that I should never hit her, or even kick her (I used to do that for fun hehe) because that is the most disrespectful thing to do to your parents. When I saw Janelle push her mother, I almost wanted to slap her. You should never, ever hit or lay a hand on your parents - not in any circumstances. I know parents may be annoying, and you argue with them but never to the extent where you should hit them. It makes me sad to see this happening between her and her mother. To know how much her mother did for her and how much she loves her daughter and to disrespect her is absolutely devasting and sad. I think about how a mother feels when their child is born - they are happy, proud, loving and supportive and when they get older, their behavior and personality changes and that's acceptable, but seeing the relationship between Janelle and her mother is, like I said - one of the saddest thing to witness. I feel sad and bad for Janelle - to have this relationship with her mother. I'm also disgusted with her attitude and how she assumes she is responsible and smart and mature. If I were her friend, I would go up to her and tell her that she is wrong and needs to act her age. To realize that she is a mother and there are certain things she is not able to do anymore - and that's her fault for getting into this situation in the first place. I just had to express myself and how I felt about this because I know my mom has taught and raised me in a well manner, because I know better then to abandon someone I love. I have respect and I appreciate my mother like no other. No matter the - excuse my language - bullshit we go through, she brought me into this world and she deserves the upright respect. I hope Janelle learnes and realizes sooner or later that her mother and family come first and boys last. I'm glad my mother knows I'm responsible and see's me as a smart, mature and respectful individual - because I did learn from the best! "I'm glad you have a good head on your shoulder Yuddy." My mom told me that one day and ever since, I knew I was the daughter she hoped I turned out to be.

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