Life can throw you the hardest ball. You can either stand there and take it, or stand there and do something about it. Either way, there are people in your life who are right behind you, rooting for you and making sure you make the best choices. Doesn't matter if you choose the wrong choice, because you live and you learn, and the best way to learn is to learn from your mistakes. So while you're standing there contemplating the right move, the right decision, the right path, that ball is nothing but a single moment, and it doesn't control your life. You do.